'It's not fair!' Kids grumble and complain for a reason, here's how to handle it

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Rogers, Marg, Dittman, Cassy and Krishnamoorthy, Govind. 2023. "'It's not fair!' Kids grumble and complain for a reason, here's how to handle it." The Conversation.
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'It's not fair!' Kids grumble and complain for a reason, here's how to handle it

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AuthorsRogers, Marg, Dittman, Cassy and Krishnamoorthy, Govind
Publication TitleThe Conversation
Year2023
Place of PublicationAustralia
Web Address (URL)https://theconversation.com/its-not-fair-kids-grumble-and-complain-for-a-reason-heres-how-to-handle-it-212621
KeywordsTeenagers ; Complaining; Childhood development; Positive parenting ; Communication ; Behaviour ; Parenting
ANZSRC Field of Research 2020520101. Child and adolescent development
520302. Clinical psychology
Byline AffiliationsUniversity of New England
Central Queensland University
University of Southern Queensland
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